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Thursday, December 30, 2010

The meaning of 2010...

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Friends, this City of ours keeps on surprising me. What a wonderful day it was here in Vancouver. Brilliant sunshine put a smile on everybody's face and that was in spite of the very cool air. The North Shore mountains looked fantastic with their new coat of fresh snow and everywhere I went I just knew that people were enjoying this day as much as I was.
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I started out the day buying gas at a Chevron gas station. Chevrons are the best because they are always neat and tidy and the bathrooms are well taken care of as well. They don't give you the bums rush either when you need to do a critical pit stop if you know what I mean.  On this bright and sunny day I got my truck washed in one of their automatic car washes. A female attendant gave me a voucher for a free car wash a couple of days ago and this was the day that I decided to take advantage of her unexpected gift to me.  When I got to the station she asked: " have you done it yet? ".  And, I said " no, but today will be the day. "  She smiled approvingly. And, that is how my day started out. Everything would be pretty and neat and I would feel wonderful all day long as I listened to my tunes and drove about in the December sunshine in my shiny and very clean white truck.

At about 5 PM I was approaching the downtown core area and what a show nature put on for us let me tell you. Words cannot describe the magic that  I saw in front of me, but words will have to suffice because I had no electronic gadgetry on hand to record the drama for you. You cannot beat nature friends when it wants to perform. I am driving into the downtown core via the Granville Street Bridge from the Southside area and the sun is setting and it is causing reflections on the highrises of the urban core. And, these majestic, glass laden pillars are now numerous indeed; they are welcoming you to the core; it is like a beckoning. The sky is darkened, but the buildings and their windows come alive all dressed up in their various shades of greens, blues and twinkling whites.  It is as if the buildings themselves were part of some sort of production; they played their part and they did it brilliantly. Need I say more?

Friends, we simply need to acknowledge that the end of this year is near. 2010 is rapidly coming to a close, only one more day of the year to experience and then it is all over but the shouting so to speak. 2010 was a tremendous year for me in terms of experience; there was meaning and revelations for me on numerous fronts.

We all lived through and loved the Olympics. I cannot even begin to describe for you the emotional joy and pride that us Vancouverites felt when the event was alive. I have never encountered such a thing in my life. It is amazing what thousands of people gathered together in common cause can do in terms of producing that do good human feeling. Never have I been so proud to be born in Vancouver.   It took the Olympics to bring it all into focus for me; I was living in the best damn spot in the world and this event proved that to me.   Check out this Olympics video in the streets of Vancouver:

Robson Street Video

On another front, 2010 also saw the death of a comrade courier. His name was Bill. If you want to read more about him then you can visit the part of my blog called Dear Courier Diary I need to ask Bill's forgiveness for what I am about to do here. Bill and I were friends, well maybe not really close friends, but darn good acquaintances anyway, and he knows about my dream girl since I talked about her just about every chance I could get. After Bill died I went to a small gathering honoring his death. These were his friends that were gathered here. Some of them loved him and others were his friends and work mates such as myself. Some memorabilia was assembled on a table in the building where the honoring took place. On display were the precious moments of Bill's last days as they were enjoyed by him and his loved one. Among the items that were assembled there was a photograph of him and his girlfriend and their most recent trip. Bill and his girlfriend had been to Juneau, Alaska and there was the picture sitting on the table right in front of me to prove it.  I was literally taken aback when I saw that photo. What did it mean -and why now?  Bill never told me that he went there and if he had he would never hear the end of my questions about his trip.... All the best in the Great Beyond Bill and sorry you missed the end of a magical year and today was very magical indeed.
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Wednesday, December 29, 2010

What is compassion?....

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What is compassion?....
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by Carl Baydala
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I want to talk about compassion and its relationship to love. What is love?  Love is a human emotion characterized by a state of well-being. Where does love come from? Love comes from loving something. Why do people love something or fall in love and just what is love? The state of being in love is a product of the complete acceptance of another human being; you love someone for what they are and the effect that they have upon you, simply by knowing them and being near to them; you willingly accept and emotionally desire and want to be with another human being because THEY MAKE YOU HAPPY. Your beloved can do no wrong because you have determined that his or her inherent qualities, be they psychological or physical or both, are capable of arousing a passion within you. You love out of self interest of course because that is the human way. This passion or desire is commonly known as love. Compassion enters the picture when someone in love is capable of recognizing how the state of love comes about; they become knowledgeable and sensitive to the needs of their partners. You know that you are in love, but you also know that your partner needs to be satisfied as well; your partner has needs and desires that need to be addressed; you become compassionate and an understanding lover when you become sensitive to these issues.  Knowing these things indicates a degree of compassion therefore.  Compassion then, is just another way of indicating understanding or allowing for the needs of others, be it with your lover or any anyone that you should encounter in your daily affairs. That is because being compassionate is a transferable skill, once acquired.  If you know true love and how to manage it properly then you should emit compassion in all of your relationships for that is the lesson of love.  But, the point dear friends is that we really never do get away completely from this business of fulfilling our own basic needs. Love is a great thing. And, recipricol love is even better. But, to achieve that desired emotional response from another human being one needs to show compassion. You have to give and you have to mean it and you have to do it honestly.  And, in giving you receive. I think things really are that simple.  
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amended ever so slightly on Sunday January 2, 2011 at approximately 6:31 AM

Saturday, December 25, 2010

Merry Christmas Friends....

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Merry Christmas Friends....
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A Special Christmas Treat For You
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Friends, I want to take you back to 1967 just one more time. Take a look at me and some of my classmates from that time period. See link below.


My Classmates and my music in 1967

This post and the ones just below are my Christmas present friends and I hope you all like what you see - and HEAR.  And, for my friends from 1967, there is even a link to all of the grad pictures too.

But, it is the music friends. That is what it is all about if you ask me. What did the sixties do for us?  Why, it gave us the love songs - and the ability to keep on remembering them and what they mean. The system will not break us and we are resolute because of the love songs.  That is what the sixties means if you want my opinion on the matter.

YOUR LOVE KEEPS LIFTIN ME (HIGHER AND HIGHER)
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Jackie Wilson
1967
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Merry Christmas friends, and once again, thanks for checking in.

PS.  I hope you like my music...and don't forget the damn headphones

Friday, December 24, 2010

Lovey dovey Christmas Eve....


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Thank you to all of my friends and acquaintances!

I want to thank everybody who dropped in to my blog to check things out this year. That is a very big deal to me, so don't think I do not care, because I do.

I told you that I was going to get a little sentimental tonight and I hope I do not let anybody down. You know, I was going over my Dear Courier Diary entries from 2009 and I can tell you that I was a very busy little boy. I didn't know that I could say so much, and perhaps, not say anything at all. I really shocked myself when I started going over all of this stuff. There is tons of writing in there. Anyway, tonight's post is especially sentimental in value. It is about love of course and that is what I spend a lot of time on in these parts. I hope everybody understands and is able to accept this part of my personality. If you know me personally then of course you do.  It is the other guys that we have to convince now isn't it?  At any rate,  Carl Baydala is not going to change and what you see is what you get.

So, here is a song by The Vogues which they produced originally in 1968. Here is the video



PS. you really do need earphones to take full advantage of these videos
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Thursday, December 23, 2010

Follow that dream....

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Friends, here is another song from Dear Courier Diary  and found here
It is an Elvis Presley song actually and it is called " Follow that Dream ".  So, again, you can see how I was feeling about things back in May, 2009.And, don't forget to put your earphones on or you are wasting your time with these videos. I have another older post lined up for tomorrow night as well. And, trust me, it is even more sentimental than this one. So, in the meantime, please enjoy this. It is Christmas time after all, so give me a break.


" Follow that Dream "
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Elvis Presley,
1962
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Wednesday, December 22, 2010

Feeling good at Christmas time....

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Friends, I am feeling really great these days. Maybe it is the Christmas thing or maybe it is just thinking about old friends and the wonderful times that we had together.  Now, here is a guy singing an old Drifters ( 1962 ) song.  I think he is doing a fabulous job actually and I believe that many others would think that too. He makes me feel like a million bucks when I listen to his rendition of this song.  I uncovered this song from one of my old  2009 Dear Courier Diary entries. You can see what kind of a mood I was in back then by reading about it  here And here is the video: PS. these videos sound fantastic with headphones on, just to let you know.

The Drifters 1962
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